A religious organization recently announced that they were
urging their members to boycott Radio Shack for one month. The reason for this was that Radio Shack uses
the phrase ‘Holidays’ rather than ‘Christmas’ in its advertising. A popular television pundit has declared that
there is a ‘war on Christmas’ and that there is a group of people who hate
Christmas and are trying to eradicate it.
I find it perplexing that religious people now decry the
current diminishing use of the word ‘Christmas’ in the marketing of merchandize
as a ‘bad’ thing. I say this because
having grown up in the Bible Belt and having spent many years as an active
participant in evangelical Christianity, I remember that every year, the
Christmas holidays brought thundering condemnation from preachers who said that
a secular society was ‘co-opting’ Christmas in order to sell merchandize. “Christmas is a manufactured holiday,” they
would say which just gives people a chance to overindulge in spending as well
as participating in all other manner of excess.
“Christians should shun such hypocrisy!” they admonished.
One Christian denomination forbids it members from even
celebrating Christmas in any religious manner (Rudolf is OK). They do so because the Bible does not
admonish Christians to celebrate Jesus’ birth (cannot deny this) and because
there is no evidence to support the belief that Jesus was born on December 25,
that in fact December 25 was originally a pagan holiday that was adopted as a
date to celebrate the birth of Jesus (also true).
I am approaching 60 years old, so I remember when America
was much less diverse than it is today.
We had very few people around us who did not follow Christian traditions. Expressions associated with the Christian
holiday were everywhere present. Society
is quite different today. Ease of travel
between continents has brought to our country individuals who may not celebrate
Christmas, but who bring other equally rich and interesting traditions. Isn’t adjusting our greeting to something
like ‘Happy Holidays’ saying to them that we want to accommodate their
traditions and make them feel welcome in this country. This seems consistent with the admonition of
Jesus to treat others as we wish to be treated.
I am certain that the mission of Christianity is in no way
advanced by insisting that Radio Shack or Wal-Mart use the word ‘Christmas’ in
their advertising or that their employees say ‘Merry Christmas’ rather than
‘happy holidays.’ A couple of weeks ago,
our neighbors invited us to their home for a ‘holiday party.’ They happen to be Jewish. We were honored that they valued our
friendship enough to include us in this event. Had we insisted on saying ‘Merry
Christmas’ to them it would not only have been rather absurd, it would also
have been unkind.
I remember the Christmas parties and gatherings that my
family attended when I was a child. I
suppose ‘Merry Christmas’ was spoken rather than ‘Happy Holidays’ but I don’t
recall any talk of worshipping the babe in the manger. Truthfully for many in those days, the
holiday was just as secular as it is now. It was mostly about gifts, parties, eggnog,
yule-logs, deck the halls, Frosty the snowman, Kriss Kringle, fruitcake, Charlie
Brown, etc, etc. Some, not all, may have attended a church service.
As much as I love to hear “Merry Christmas’ I also welcome
‘Happy Holidays’ as an expression of kindness and a wish of good will. And that makes me feel good! People waging ‘war’ usually do not want to
spread cheer.
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Thank you so much. As you know I am a major Christian. However, not everyone understands that this is not a religious holiday as you pointed out. It is not an approved Biblical holiday either. Tolerance is one thing that many Christians (as well) are soon to forget.
ReplyDeleteYou've helped me to figure out what I've been thinking this past week. I actually was scolded for saying Happy Holidays instead of Merry Christmas; and, it really made me think about why. I agree that I can't know for sure that each person I encounter celebrates Christmas. I have many friends in my adult life that celebrate holidays other than Christmas. When I say, Happy Holidays, it includes Christmas, Kwanzaa, New Year, etc. It's a good thing, and I'm wishing everyone well. Thanks for your post and your perspective - always nice to hear : )
ReplyDeleteTake care,
Alison